Technically, humans crave sex as an evolutionary instinct. In order for the species to survive, we need to procreate. And when you have penetrative sex, both you and her get a fair amount of pleasure. The vagina is structured in such a way that when you penetrate her with your penis, you can technically hit all the pleasure spots. The thing is, thinking of it that way is as subtle as throwing paint at a canvas and hoping you get a masterpiece! For this reason, women absolutely love oral sex. Even if you have very little experience, licking her pussy will make her cum. Movie scenes which show women trembling, squealing, and begging for more oral sex are actually very accurate.
Is there a bigger bedroom bummer than when someone doesn't know how to go down on you properly? Nope, there sure isn't. That's because cunnilingus — even so-so cunnilingus — is awesome. So on the occasion that your partner just clearly has no idea what they're doing down there, it really is disappointing. Nobody wants to be that person, but unfortunately, knowing how to go down on a girl or more accurately, people with vaginas isn't exactly part of our sex ed curriculum.
The one about how to eat pussy. This is what I would say if—when—I get the courage to teach him. The women that come after me will be secretly thanking this mystery ex for teaching him how to do it right.
Did you know that a research study of 52, Americans found that receiving oral sex is by far the strongest predictor of how frequently women orgasm? Regardless if you are male, intersex or female, identify as non-binary, man or woman or girl or boy! Everything external in the genital region can be referred to as the vulva. Similar to the external genitalia of a male, the vulva contains many highly erogenous zones that can result in orgasm if stimulated. And yes, you guessed it, the tongue is a damn good tool for getting the job done.